On many occasions at the KH brothers are seen hugging sisters and I wondered how that would make you feel and would you tell your husband about it? On several occasions I knew of this married sister who was constantly approached by a married elder and he would hug this sister to the point it made her feel uncomfortable. Upon speaking to her about it on many an occasion I said to her if you feel uncomfortable then it he is in the wrong. As an elder he had no right to make her feel that way. During meetings he would make gaga eyes at her and I told her that this elder who was married by the way, was making sexual advances to her. At first she was angry with me for making such remarks but then he started calling her from his place of employment during the day. I told her that no happy married elder would call another married sister if he didn't have strong feelings for her. As time progressed she still was in denial and one day I asked her one simple question, and I would be willing to drop this whole matter. I said why does this elder call you everyday from his office when he knows your husband is at work and would your husband be angry and upset if he found out about this? She pondered for a while and said your right, I guess what he is doing is wrong, I told her your damn right this is wrong. This elder needs some strong talking to and so I asked her if she wanted me to ask her husband what he felt. She begged me not to. I didn't because at some point she really felt that his hugs really ment more to him then to her and that i was right. She must have at some point discussed the matter with her mother and the mother called the husband of my friend and said something needs correcting and fast. The next thing I found out that this brother and family moved to the USA. I often wonder if the elders wife had found out how would she feel about this sister as she was cute and she was a little on the heavy side.. I know she would be crushed. Its just as well that this elder went away to the States but then he started calling her again during business hours. I told her just don't answer when it displays on the telephone and he will get the message or I will tell your husband and the congregation elders. She knew I would too. Because this sister was my sister and I was trying to safe her from making a crave mistake. I love'd her very much. Oh but what the WTS has caused between us I lost my sister to them. She hasn't spoke with me for nearly four years. Will she remember how I saved her...??????
How would you feel if this happened to you and I suppose it could be the other way arround. Give me your feelings on the matter.
Love orangefatcat