Rubadub: If and when I tell you my name, you may understand that even a post office box somewhere else may not work, so DFing is what I want to be ready for. It's a very unusual name. Very unusual, Scully, SaintSatan and a few others can vouch for that!
Czar, first of all, if I actually was that concerned about they (the WTS) thought, then I would not be buying lottery tickets, right ? Thanks for your concern, however, I know what you mean, I've been plagued by being a people pleaser all my life .
And secondly, my mother's state of mind and feelings are more important than even the millions. (see some of my previous posts )