Songs that help recovery

by peacefulpete 13 Replies latest jw friends

  • peacefulpete
    peacefulpete

    Are there songs that seem to speak to you? Maybe especially when leaving the church and losing friends and family. I still pause when I hear Hennly's Heart of the Matter. Great lyrics that apply in many circumstances but always feel appropriate.

    ....I'm learning to live without you now

    But I miss you sometimes
    The more I know, the less I understand
    All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning again
    I've been trying to get down to the Heart of the Matter
    But my will gets weak
    And my thoughts seem to scatter
    But I think it's about forgiveness
    Forgiveness
    Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

    These times are so uncertain
    There's a yearning undefined
    And people filled with rage
    We all need a little tenderness
    How can love survive in such a graceless age
    The trust and self-assurance that lead to happiness
    They're the very things we kill, I guess
    Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms
    And the work I put between us,
    You know it doesn't keep me warm

    I'm learning to live without you now
    But I miss you, baby
    The more I know, the less I understand
    All the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
    I've been trying to get down to the heart of the matter
    But everything changes
    And my friends seem to scatter
    But I think it's about forgiveness
    Forgiveness
    Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

    There are people in your life who've come and gone
    They let you down, you know they hurt your pride
    You better put it all behind you, baby, 'cause life goes on
    You keep carrying that anger, it'll eat you up inside, baby

    I've been trying to get down to the Heart of the Matter
    But my will gets weak
    And my thoughts seem to scatter
    But I think it's about forgiveness
    Forgiveness
    Even if, even if you don't love me
  • punkofnice
    punkofnice

    This one helped me when my dear old Dad died....

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmD9Z5vC6Vc

    One day, you may have it all your own way
    And live the life you choose
    And think you understand
    The meaning of it all
    But don't close your eyes
    There's a whole wide world
    Just waiting for you

    Where is the moment you were waiting for
    When you walk through your God's door?
    Is it what you've lived your whole life for
    Life everlasting or darkness ever more?

    But don't close your eyes
    There's a whole wide world
    Just waiting for you

    (and I believe that)

    Chorus
    One Day, in your life you'll realise
    The reason why you're here
    One Day, in your life you'll realise
    The reason why you're here

    Church bells are ringing out for you
    The Sunday morning call
    To lay your life right down
    Your God just takes it all
    But don't close your eyes
    There's a whole wide world
    Just waiting for you

    (and I believe that)

    Chorus Repeat

    Did you ever stop to think about the world as a whole?
    Do you ever think about your life beyond your front door?

    (and I believe that)

    Chorus Repeat

  • enoughisenough
    enoughisenough

    during divorce...Rod Stewart: Reason to Believe...and then years later when married to a bipolar person who made life traumatic and funny and interesting at the same time- a song called White Flag. Now one that speaks to me Is Johnny Depp's: this is a song for Hedy Lamar ( it's about being canceled by others...it fits )

  • Sea Breeze
  • JeffT
    JeffT

    Tommy, by The Who. The whole album. I think that salvation through pinball is a perfect analogy for whatever stupid behavior the cult you're in demands of you, like say, counting the hours you spend selling Watchtower magazines. And making yourself deaf, dumb and blind while doing it.

  • peacefulpete
    peacefulpete

    Sea Breeze..that is disturbing.

  • silentlamb_silent_no_more
    silentlamb_silent_no_more

    I have just came across one recently. I have many but this one really hit home.

    If you have been shunned, you know how this feels and then having to cut them off for your own mental health, because wishing they would leave that awful cult and awaken, can be a futile exercise that will only bring ruin to you.

    I find better things started to happen after I decided to leave them to their hateful selves as they would never harm me again.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6X38O5NMbM

  • Diogenesister
    Diogenesister

    Silent_lamb_silent_no_more

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  • BelisemDeBelimakom
    BelisemDeBelimakom

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0NOxf4uaZI

    When I die, put my ashes in the trash bag
    I don't care where they go
    Don't waste your money on my gravestone
    I'm more concerned about my soul
    Everybody's gon' die
    Don't everybody live though
    Sometimes I look up to the sky
    And wonder do You see us down here?

    Oh Lord, oh Lord, do You see us down here?
    Oh Lord, oh Lord

    Listen, yeah everybody wants change
    Don't nobody wanna change though

    Don't nobody wanna pray
    Till they got something to pray for
    Now everybody's gon' die
    But don't everybody live though
    Sometimes I look up to the sky
    And wonder do you see us down here?

    Oh Lord, oh Lord, do You see us down here?
    Oh Lord, oh Lord

    It's easy to blame God but harder to fix things
    We look in the sky like, "why ain't You listening?"
    Watching the news in our living rooms on the big screens
    And talking 'bout "if God's really real, then where is He?"
    You see the same God that you saying might not even exist
    Becomes real to us, but only when we dying in bed
    When ya healthy it's like, we don't really care for Him then
    Leave me alone God, I'll call you when I need you again
    Which is funny, everyone will sleep in the pews
    Then blame God for our problems like He sleeping on you
    We turn our backs on Him, what do you expect Him to do?
    It's hard to answer prayers when nobody's praying to you
    I look around at this world we walk on
    It's a smack in the face, don't ever tell me there's no God
    And if there isn't then what are we here for?
    And what are y'all doing down there? I don't know Lord

    Oh Lord, oh Lord, do You see us down here?
    Oh Lord, oh Lord

    Do You see us down here? Oh Lord
    Can You see us down here? Oh Lord
    Oh Lord, oh Lord
    Can You see us? Can't You see us?

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