My husband got a taste of the reaction he would get when asking questions within the WT ( His childhood memories are so distorted).
Years back when I was just reading and studying TTATT, while he was jumping in with both feet to WT studies on the path to baptism, I did a no-no. ( Not knowing the correct way to handle this stuff yet) I wrote out a list of questions to ask his study conductors. It was lengthy ( mistake) and hard hitting questions ( another mistake) and they didn't get past the first two questions before the conductors questioned where these ideas came from, accused me of being infected with apostate materials, then dismissed the questions as "only apostate and not real or worth the time". My husband came home chastising me for embarrassing him. He said at that time "oh if I had asked those questions after baptism, I would be in so much trouble". He later denied ever saying that. In fact claiming the opposite. But in the beginning he would tell the truth about things because he was still being indoctrinated and wasn't fully brain cleansed, and shortly later twisted reality. He refused to ever answer those questions, and later lied about how he thought they were good questions (in the beginning).
I am hoping the seeds I have learned to plant over these years are taking root. I do think he has questions but hides them, tries to compartmentalize them and lock them away. He has not been to a study for years, no meetings except the memorial. Infrequent conventions. So, we will see if he ever allows the questions out and really address them.