Blondie: Simon, they are not promoting themselves....they never have. I just want people to know they are real people like you and I. I'm sorry now I even said something; I'm disappointed that you would drag this through the mud.
I could be wrong, Blondie, but I don't think Simon was referring to the Dykstras when he was speaking of "self promotion".
I, for one, am glad that you posted what you did. You are right, in that your post makes the Dykstras real people - people who Ray and Cynthia loved and people who deserve our respect.