I don't believe I've ever started a topic here before.
Ladies, ever wanted to play "Matchmaker" or "Advice for the Lovelorn"? Well, I've got a situation that has me going in circles. It's something I'm also talking about with the realtime women friends in my life, and they've been just great, but there is also huge resource of fabulous women here on JWD that will know about that other intangible aspect of our x-JW involvement and how it affects people, relationships and families, that the women I know will never quite grasp.
It is not, however, something I choose to discuss here. I'm sorry to make this a bit more work, but if you feel like helping, please email me at [email protected]
Maybe I misread your reply to Little Witch, but there's no need to be mean. I understand that you might not want to post your personal affairs on the forum but here again I understand where Little Witch is coming from as well.
I don't think I understand completely what it is that's happening. I do hope you get the answers that you seek.
I just think your post was odd, and that you were trying to take advantage of female posters for dubious reasons.
So you stuff, sweetie.
We are not bleeding hearts, to be taken advantage of. You made an obvious attempt to entice female posters to email you, and I said ''dont hold your breath"
Obviously, no one takes you seriously....Buzz Off, Loser
I'll offer you some public advice since you asked. First of all you're a bit thin skinned and your very negative response to the first female to reply says a lot about why you'd want some help. Then you justify your nasty response.
Yeah, I'd be sending you my email address, sure I would.
Perhaps hanging out in chat here and conversing with women who interest you would be an easier way to get to know someone. Also, make use of the private message feature. The worst that can happen is that they'll say no.
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A post from Simon earlier this month concerning singles/personals here:
I've had a rethink on this and don't intend adding any singles section. My reasoning is:
It cheapens the place. It looks like a "meat market". The best way to meet people is to go out to meet them.
People would come to me to sort problems out (they do already) and I don't want to get involved. In the past people have got involved then fallen out and expect me to step in and take one side or the other. I would feel that I had some responsibility and don't want it.
Several people have met (and even married) from the forum and I think this is fantastic. I don't think successful relationships happen so much from singles areas though. People should really just get to know people during the normal course of posting. If they are attracted to each other and want to hook up? Great.
There are plenty of dating / singles / meetup sites out there that people can use.
