What do you think is the best way to deal with karma?

gambit

You are guilty of the crime "Love like you've never been hurt"
It hurts, but it's still the only way to go... give it all, and be happy with what you get in return...
I believe you are wise in feeling your feelings and wishing her well in life...
Stay sober for a day or two... then get right back into life.
gambit
SheilaM

Yep Karma usually bites you in the ass when you least expect it
Francois

When it rains, let it.
Elsewhere

Have you tried setting out an open jar with a mischievous smurf in it? The karma is bound to be attracted to it!
The next morning quietly sneak up to the jar and quickly put the lid on!
There ya go... karma in a jar... along with the evil smurf. Two problems solved in one night!