with non-witnesses when you left the witnesses? I never had a hard time fitting in with witnesses since I grew up as one, I was always popular in witness circles and could usually strike up an easy conversation with someone as long as I knew they were a witness.
Actually I was a naughty witness so the exact opposite is true for me. I never fit in with the Witness kids really, they didn't want me around, I wasn't good association because I didn't put in enough service hours. I always felt like I had to conceal the truth about myself, and you don't joke about certain things when with them, and you certainly don't tell them about the boy who asked you out at school, who you are considering saying yes to because the witness boys won't give you the time of day.
While I sympathize, and it was hard at first to hang with "worldly" people. I felt like I was being "naughty" again. But I quickly found, I could totally relax. Anything I said was hillarious, not shocking, the music I listened to was "cool" not "satanic". I got to discover who I really was, and I got to showcase that person, as opposed to telling her to shut up and sit still like I did while still in.
Hang in there. You'll find out who you feel comfortable with soon enough. And you'll soon realize "Worldly People" are actually pretty sweet and giving, just like the witnesses claimed to be. And they don't all do drugs and they usually don't try to get you to perform weird sex acts at a satanic campground, who's profits go to fund the Republican party.