Don't be startled by the title of this thread.
Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts.
In planning for my escape from the borg, I've come to the sad realization that the best thing for me to do considering factors like: breaking my parents and siblings hearts, lack of support groups, lack of counseling groups for cult survivors, and the prospect of finding a mate who shares my secular views on life, I've come to the realization that I need to leave my country and even my continent Africa.
I know I sound desperate, but what can a brother do when all he can do is cry out for help or die in silence.
Fortunately for me, I have a Bachelor's of Science Degree.
I'm young and highly motivated. I need to cut my loss for the years of my life I've wasted in the borg, and build a career.
America, Canada, Europe, Australia anywhere far away.
N. B: I will pay for the VISA process and flight ticket. I have my own savings to live on, so I won't be a burden.
ALL I NEED is someone to get me a job over there, which will enable me process my visa in my home country.
Or send me an invitation.
Or any other way which I may not have thought of.
I know I'll have to answer questions, I'll be glad to answers in PM so as not to blow my cover for now.