So much money has been already put into this man and his family so I think we should pump the brakes on the “Save Dijana” movement. This is a grown adult woman with two girls, I think she has the capability to ask for help if she truly needs it. As Simon noted, how do we know that her husband wouldn’t benefit from this? I’ve seen crazy things in relationships before where two people who were completely at odds and split are reconciled the minute they see each other again.
Even if she desires help, what makes you think she wants to go to ExJWs, where her husband still has a lot of influence? If she asks for or receives money, will she be the next subject of his YT meltdowns?
Let her or someone close to her (and out of her husband’s orbit) come and do the asking. Let’s quit handing out these crowdfunds like they are candy.