I was COBOE in a cong with a sister like this. She was a special pioneer and loved to bully others. Any other woman she perceived as a threat to her influence would be accused of immorality. It got to the point where we wouldn't let her comment at meetings anymore, but the org would not remove her as a special pioneer. They eventually moved her to another cong, she turned on her husband and now they both are out.
She stumbled a few who ended up leaving, but looking back, I hope they found better lives outside the org!
I have struggled with relating my experiences (of 32yrs.) On this forum, so didn't. You have written it for me. I went cold turkey in April.
Live your life now how you want. You come across as a strong person.
It's not possible to have a healthy relationship with an indoctrinated person.
This is so true sparrowdown.
I don't have any advice for you just wanted to say stay strong and don't let them see your pain. Avoid them for awhile and find some peace. Ok, I guess that could be counted as advice.