I thought I'd share this one with the group. Many years ago, my mom was disfellowshipped. Then, my sister passed away in a car accident, she was fairly young, as she was in her early 20s. Well, two days later, two elders came to my house and told me not to use this event as an excuse to talk with my disfellowshipped mother and proceeded to go over a Kingdom Ministry article and some scriptures to drive their point.
In all honesty, this has been one of the most excruciating experiences of my life.