Single People - Where do you go to meet people?

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  • Elsewhere

    There have been a rash of "single people" and "dating" threads lately, so I thought I would add one more...

    For those of you who are single... where do you go to meet people?

  • OrbitingTheSun

    That's a good question. I go to a women's college, so meeting guys at school isn't really an option. I'll have to keep an eye on this thread for ideas.

  • George W Bush
    George W Bush

    My predecessor simply went to work.

  • Elsewhere

    Something I have noticed about a lot of single people is they keep themselves very busy... so busy that they leave almost no time for socializing. Either they are at work or taking classes, or both. By the end of the day there is no time for anything.

  • MegaDude

    Anywhere single people congregate.....

    charity drives

    any hobby or sport that you like that has a local club

    church (perfect for you, Elsewhere )


    Yahoo or AOL single people ads


    this board

    your local professional association

    (I'm leaving out bars. I can't hear a damn thing in them.)

  • MegaDude

    I took a couple of educational courses with Fun Ed last year. I met some nice people taking a class on hypnosis, writing for magazines, writing for film, weight-training.

  • shamus

    At the local laundromat...

  • MegaDude

    Friendster Network Grows in Popularity

    Sun Aug 3, 2:40 PM ET
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    By JANET PAK, AP Business Writer

    Christian Lesstrang didn't know a soul in Chicago after moving from San Francisco.

    So he turned to, a Web site that owes its rapidly growing popularity to a simple but effective formula. Unlike dating sites that disseminate profiles of people looking to meet others, Friendster lets people network only with their friends' other friends — and those people's friends as well.

    Browsing through the hundreds of people in his Friendster network, Lesstrang, 32, came across a few in Chicago. He e-mailed them, told them how they were connected and asked if they'd be interested in meeting up. Within a week in his new city, Lesstrang had some get-togethers, and now he has met about 10 people he regularly sees.

    "You meet friends and there's really no expectations or anything weird about that," Lesstrang said. "It's just going through life, except through a referral network."

    One year after being launched by software engineer Jonathan Abrams, Friendster has attracted a healthy buzz and 1.3 million users — despite no advertising and being officially only in beta, or test mode. The company has spent $250,000 getting started and operates out of a suite in Sunnyvale, Calif., with a staff of just seven.

    Users join Friendster by invitation from a friend or associate. Becoming a member requires filling out a profile that lists only users' first names, gender, status, date of birth, country, postal code and what they seek from being on Friendster.

    Users can add more information and a picture of themselves if they want, and can expand the network by inviting other friends to join. Then users can flip through the profiles of people up to four degrees of separation away.

    That leads to a big and rapidly expanding pool of people bound by a common desire to meet other people, whether for dating, friendships or business networking. About 53 percent of the users are male, 47 percent female. The average age is 27.

    "In real life, people meet each other through their friends," Abrams said. "I felt a demand for these type of services and wanted to help people meet new people, but there was room for a new approach."

    The rise of Friendster and other social networking sites like, and stems from the Internet's power as a grassroots, peer-to-peer medium.

    "Social networking tools are going to do well," said Clay Shirky, adjunct professor of interactive telecommunications at New York University and a scholar of Internet communities. "Friendster's success makes it clear you can meet people without being a dating-only site."

    Friendster is free for now, but within a few months, it will take on a subscription model similar to online dating sites. It will remain free to post a profile and view others, but members will have to pay $8 a month if they want to be able to contact new people, about one-third the price of some dating sites.

    Derek Hartley of New York was perusing Friendster one night at 2 a.m. when he came across a familiar name and photo. It was Chuck Griffiths, a friend he had met at a party a few years ago but eventually lost touch with. Taken aback, Hartley took a moment to reflect, read Griffith's profile, then e-mailed about getting back in touch.

    Other users have had romantic experiences.

    John Prato of San Francisco originally searched Friendster for users interested in music and cognitive sciences, while Jenae Serena of Seattle was hoping to network with other people in the software industry. As it turns out, they found each other — and have been dating for a few months.

    "The best way it can happen," Prato said, "is when you're not looking for it."


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  • Prisca

    Let your friends know that you're looking, and if you see/meet someone that you like don't be afraid to let your friends know so they can introduce you/set you up.

    I know it sounds corny but since I'm not a nightclub/bar type of person, I'd much rather meet someone that is known and trusted by mutual friends than trying your luck with a complete stranger.

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