thank you everyone for the kind words and suggestions. I agree that i should take things slow and not jump back into anything else to quickly and learn who i am and what i want. I dont want to fall into the same pattern as before
Thanks for posting! This is like therapy for some of us. Like others have posted, take things slowly and one step at a time. I wouldn't get into a relationship so soon. Have time to collect your thoughts and decide what kind of person you want in your life. Do they make you a better person? Are they mentally stable? Do they make good decisions? Are they heavily in debt? Do they have health problems that may be taxing on you? Ask his family and friends what are his strenghts and weaknesses.