by Alostpuppydog 30 Replies latest social relationships
I think it all depends where you look and the type of person you are looking for.
People we know have fewer marriage breakups and seem as (or more) moral than many that used to be at the KH.
The idea that JW = wholesome / moral and non-JW = slutty / immoral is just WTS propaganda.
There's a mix of people, take your pick. Don't complain if you get what you picked.
What a strange opening post.
The poster seems to want to know if worldly women are as faithful as JW women. He is obviously tempted or involved in a 'worldky' woman.
Ive got news for you buddy.
Women are all the same, no matter what colour, culture, creed or religion: They are faithful and loyal to any man who genuinely loves and respects them and shows it by his words and actions.
Religions got nothing to do with it. Since time immemorial, if any man treats the woman he loves, 'worldly' or not, with genuine love, tenderness and respect, she will be faithful.
A womans love for a man and her children and family universally transcend man-made superstitious inventions and nonsense such as religion.
Women are far superior to men in this respect and in all ways of the heart and of love.
Awesome post. I wholeheartedly agree ^^^^^
fukitol, despite your username, you are right on. Some men watch too much porn where they get their delusions/illusions from.
Well, the women in your life are fortunate women.
Since time immemorial, if any man treats the woman he loves, 'worldly' or not, with genuine love, tenderness and respect, she will be faithful.
As Michelle Langley explained in excruciating detail, there is more too it than that. (Not to say that your advice is untrue or unimportant...).
Women are human beings with much the same foibles and frailties as men.
Mrs. flipper - "...I've heard of a whole lot of cheating and sexual misbehavior in the jws. Wife swapping for Christ's sake. I've never heard of wife swapping anywhere else, except for Hollywood swingers in the 60's.
I've hung out with people who are in no way conservative or religious and most have been more well behaved and trustworthy than you seem to think..."
I've said it before, and I'll say it again.
Conservative religiosity is sexually repressive, and sexual repression fosters sexual deviancy.
The opposite worldview - far more often than not - produces better results.
One cannot generalize about others in this way. You are dealing with individuals, not some monolith, "women". Each WOMAN is an . individual. I try not to be some reactive person, and I'm conservative in many ways, but I'm offended by the question in the title. When you seek a partner in life, you will get the person they are, the one that has good, bad and ugly bits. She will be an individual and you should have a good idea of her character and history and goals before you build a life with her. Then, you should work along with her to build the relationship you want. You don't get faithfulness by choosing a woman that you think will be faithful (for whatever reason) and figure your work is done. It just started.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiIu0tm_DyM
This video was made by the watch from the tower in the 60,s and is an insight into the mind set of the leaders at the time. It,s almost like they were jealous of the world,s attitude and had to make this crude video to steer young ones in their direction.
One cannot generalize about others in this way. You are dealing with individuals, not some monolith, "women".
From the standpoint of who the OP decides to date (Or not) you're absolutely, positively right. Like Simon said above:
There's a mix of people, take your pick. Don't complain if you get what you picked.
From the standpoint of sociology, the question is valid and a number of women have written about it during the last ten years of so.
Here's Michelle Langley's website:
Here are the musings of blogger, Laura Wood
I'm not a big fan of evopsych (It strikes me as junk science to be honest) but it does make a certain sense that as the economic gap between men and women closes, the infidelity gap would close as well.
You may as well ask how faithful humans are these days. Posing such a gender-specific question is no different than asking how faithful Hispanics are or how faithful people living in the state of Iowa are or how faithful redheads are. You are assuming that a group of people identified by a single trait are somehow different from the rest of humanity.
