by Robdar 46 Replies latest members adult
I'd have to agree with everyone here - boot his butt! Anyone that would disrespect another's home & belongings in this way is way to inconsiderate to have as a roommate. Who knows what else he's doing when you're not around!!! There are plenty of people in this world that would be much better roommate material than this.
(((Robdar))) what a pain in the butt to have to deal with on top of everything else!
Sounds like he is willing to put you down if you don't let him spread his crap everywhere
LadyLee, sounds that way to me too.
Sounds like I would have already locked up my computer with a password. Jourles, Good idea. I am not all that computer savvy but will ask my kid how to do it. Anyone that thinks they have more rights than me in MY home and MY space is a nut. Brummie, I began thinking he was a nut when I found the picture of Hitler that he down loaded. The conversation that we had over that is another thread entirely. As long as he is not listed on the lease, you should have no trouble asking him to leave. Especially if you give him a reasonable amount of time to find a space. Teenyuck, there is no lease. He is paying me monthly. We had both agreed that we could end the partnership at any time. He is now regretting insisting on that. Ignore his petty childish insults and stand your ground - its your home and PC. Angharad, I felt that the insults were childish too. It was like watching a teenager get snotty. Tell him this......Gumby, Big Tex, Thunder Rider, and Ashitaka, are getting on a plane to come over there and kick his ass! Tell him all 4 of these mean bastards are over 6 ft. and that they are crazier than a peach orchard boar! ROTFLMAO, Gumby. He is a big guy....Thanks for getting my back! I look forward to you all's visit p.s. Just curious, but what's it like having a roommate of the opposite sex? TeeJay, it is like having a boyfriend except without the sex. He leaves hair everywhere and he takes up a lot of space. I am thinking less of him as a roommate and more like a penis-bearing troglidyte! You like this situation? Keep voting democrat. The preceeding political announcement was brought to you by Francois, everybody's favorite libertarian. LOL What if the porn he is downloading is about children? Holy crap, Cruzanheart, I never thought of that. Thanks for the warning. Any chance I get to see those pics? Just playing! LOL, Rocketman! Nope, they are property of the artists. simply lock your computer with a password, which is VERY easy to do with any computer Syn, yes, it is easy for a genius like you. How would a dumbass like me do that? Then move your computer into your bedroom and have a key lock installed on your bedroom door. Good advice, Scully. But I am living in my loft, not enough room there. But at least I have a lock on the door. Tis a pity that I can't lock it while I am gone because I think he has been snooping through my things. Also, he needs a little R E S P E C T Sheila, dats da truff. He thinks that I need his money to keep the house during this divorce. He is right but there are some things that I just can't stomach. The money will come from somewhere if not from him. WOOHOO! Its clobberin Time! LOL at Thunder Rider! This guy would take one look at your muscles and run away like a little girl. Xandria, thanks for clearing up the differences between a lease and a tenancy contract. You rock, girlfriend! If I were you I'd be checking my personal space for spy-cams! Maverick, good idea. Very good idea. Thanks. This guy sounds like a punk and would deserve to come home with all his stuff piled at the door step Hehe Heathen, he is a punk. A big hairy one! IMMATURE and totally disrespectful Rayzorblade, I agree totally. He wasn't going to stop until he got his way. I finally lost it and told him to shut the hell up. Who knows what else he's doing when you're not around!!! Pettygrudger, Good point. I was wondering the same thing myself. Thanks everybody for your comments. Love, Robyn
This certainly sounds like an unpleasant situation--best of luck.
The computer is yours, and if I were you, I would put password restrict the computer.
Then, I would kick him out. His arguements are stupid, and needs to go. Like yesterday.
I agree with the password thing - email me if you need help [email protected]
otherwise the guy sounds like a prat and if the rappor has broken down, get him out sooner than later.
Robar,
u are way too trusting. Find a way to stop him. Otherwise, u could be held accountable for his actions. What if he does sit naked in front of your window, and someone sees it? The police will not care who did it if they find kid porn on your computer. It will be on your computer. Not only can u put a password on the internet service, but u can put one on windows. he won't even be able to open windows. I bet your son or a friend knows how to do this. but watch him, he could be computer savy.
no one has the right to force pornography (or anything) on you. this is your home, where you have the ABSOLUTE RIGHT to feel safe. do whatever you must; maybe you just don't want to live with someone who does not care about how you feel, or maybe it will be enough to lock him out of your computer. is it worth the energy spent on this person to continue living with him?
... just a thought
Agree that he has no right....How are you holding out, btw?
Rosemarie
I work in multi-family real estate. If you e-mail me or pm me and let me know what state you are in I can try to find out what laws apply. If the lease is in your name only, in most places if you tell him to leave and he doesn't he's trespassing.
He had a girlfriend right?
Maybe you can show this girl what he is downloading on your PC or ask her if she could make him stop visiting those sites. heheheh.
Or simply lock it indeed. He has rights, using your computer is not one of them.
Greven
