As you know I am a PIMO because of family, who, like yourself was raised as a JW from the 1940's. My wife was a pioneer and I used to do my bit.
However, this last 5 years or so I have seen a malaise within the congregation that I have never seen before. The D2D is all but dead and the only "preaching" is with the trolleys. At our congregation they change over every hour or so and then return to the KH for coffee and food. I've seen them serving up everything from cakes to chilli and rice. Then wander off for another bash on the trolley. It's just a social thing really.
The meetings are as flat as a pancake, the comments are just regurgitated from the assigned material. We recently had a CA; nobody even mentioned it afterwards and the same happens following the RC in the summer.
The contributions are seriously down which is probably why the recent letter instructing the elders to review the amount the congregation sends each month.
I just wish my old man, and my FIL could see what has become of their religion, the one they chose and inflicted on my wife and I.