This is a very difficult time for you. If you love him & want to stay-my suggestion would be- make a pact that religion doesnt come into both your conversations. If he LOVES you as he says, he will go along with that.>You might say something like this>" " I know you believe I will die at Armageddon If I dont believe as you do-but I love you , you love me so let us spend out remaining days together in love-Then at Armageddon you will be able to do as you like".........I have a man in my group who was 50 yrs in the Borg. She ( his wife) was a Pioneer for many years. They split over the religion---but they were both unhappy with out each other -they went to a counsellor ( worldy) who suggested HE give up this group>& she stop Pioneering until HE died,.They are back & it is working fine-Good Luck
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BluesBrother
Hi Rebel,
this whole thing of the split household really stinks. My wife is at her Tuesday study . Every time the subject comes up, which is very often, it descends into an argument. i am viewed as crazy because I no longer follow the men from Brooklyn. It is strange , she will criticize the Org, the cong, the mags even more than me - but remain fiercely loyal to the faith.
I accept that some people do not want to face the real truth. That takes a certain courage that not everyone has.
Please bear up. Find the strength to assert your independance. Are you one that could benefit from self help books? I have found ones by Dr Wayne Dyer particularly helpful
There are plenty of us here . You are in good company.
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little witch
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