if you don't love Christ you won't go to heaven you'll go to hell.
Has anyone ever been told this story:
Everyone had finally made it into heaven and there was a great celibration going on. But Jesus just stood at the gates looking out upon the horizion. And I asked him, "lord what are you doing?" And with a tear in his eyes he replied "I'm waiting for Judus."
If one goes we all go. If one does not go then none of us will. To me, it is that simple.
When someone tells you that you are not good enough for God please, just shrug it off. That person is an idiot.