Wow, thank you Victor for your thoughtful, heartfelt reply. I need to read it a couple more times and really ponder over it...I will indeed drop you an e mail, soon ((((((((Victor_E)))))).
In case anybody wants to drop me a note, my e mail is [email protected] i'm having some trouble with the private message function on the board, i have one in my box and can read it but can't reply :(
hugs to all and thanks again, for everything...
essies ghost