Lunch today with.. JW step father....

by raven 31 Replies latest jw experiences

  • DesirousOfChange

    To DA is your decision only.

    Each person has to weigh their individual circumstances and make their own decision. For us, "fading" has (so far) proven to be advantageous. Our diehard JW family members (who matter) just consider us as "weak and inactive, or stumbled" and do not shun us. Other JW "friends" still greet us and speak easily with us, even though we haven't gone to a meeting or Field Circus for over 3 years.

    Also, in my opinion, DFing and DAing come from the JW Rule Book. I don't go by that book of rules any longer. I'm NOT going to play by their rules. . . . Doc

  • raven

    LONGHAIRGAL- I am an adult, and financially independent ( I own my own home in a different city, about 1 1/2 hours away from my JW family and EX KH ) I will try that next time, I don't want to give off the idea that I am letting my guard down.. He may have a different motive other than a simple generic lunch for future.

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