That's good, PTN. I gave my perspective because I lived the experience of growing up in a divided household. My unbelieving father forced me to decorate a Christmas tree, and to participate in many celebrations that I was taught to be unchristian. I'm grown up now, and I have raised my kids in the JW faith. My family has had much enjoyment without participating in those holidays. We respect others who do want to celebrate as well.
So sorry to hear about your husband's uncaring attitude toward your family.