Yeah I agree I still get nervous around women.
Today I learned - I'm incapable of having a relationship
My big problem as a teenager and as an adult is that I saw women only as sexual partners/girfriends, never as friends. So I never had female friends. That's half the population that I dismissed; big mistake.
Garret, if she is not interested in you as a future sexual partner, then take her as a friend. No losses. This way you won't get as nervous, and you will allow the relationship to develop smoothly in any direction it is meant to go: friend, girlfriend, wife or nothing.
EDIT: I guess Garret is gone. I just noticed this thread is a year old