I am sure you will do well with the elders. Based on what I know about you from reading your posts you are a really cool guy. I agree with jgnat that you will make them squirm.
I do agree with JT and the rest that you should tread lightly in view of the fact that your wife is still heavily into this.
Hey, this is better than a soap opera. I can't wait for the next episode. I hope you will share it with us.
I wish you the best.