My wifes father was an Elder. To hear all the stories she tells. If she wasn't my wife I would'nt beleive her. Counseling her from the stage. The spankings being borderline child abuse. The finally having sex with the sisters he is supposed to be helping. That was his downfall.
PO's daughter, fortunately his congregation is several hundred miles from me. So I am out of sight, out of mind. He hasn't cultivated friendships in this District or Circuit so that works well for me. I'm still managing to stay under the WT radar.