Appreciate everyones observations, something else i forgot:
at the end, the bad girl and the born in do nothing guy she married are having the final momentous argument to resolve the fate of their marriage. They are both crying and yelling. On her fathers advise (he repented in front of his bad girl daughter thay he didnt reach out for privledges) she pleads for her husband to stay. He yells "why??? Why do you want me to stay???" Her answer......
"so you can live forever".
Not i love you, not to work it out for the kids not any other good reason.... Just wt promises. What a complete piece of crap