Oh! About that "attitudes have changed ... it's the old guys who don't get it"?:
If only that very newly baptised brother HAD been an older man! But he wasn't. Just arrogrant. Only about 24. And showed absolutely NO RESPECT for MY grayheadedness!!! (which I cover with hair dye, BTW)
Welcome, IslandWoman! I've posted on H2O as JR93 and so have "met" you.