You are playing with fire, because believe it or not many local bodies of elders are composed of decent hardworking family men (and admittedly I speak only based on observations from my local community) who abhor the thought of having to disfellowship anyone!
Riiiight...that's why, as many here will attest, the elders are nowhere to be found when people or families are having serious problems and need spiritual help. But if they hear someone may have committed a disfellowshipping offense, they're johnny-on-the-spot, even tracking down people who havent seen the inside of a Kingdom Hall in years! I don't know how it is in your congregation, but if it's as you describe, it's certainly the exception, not the rule.
Even as a brainwashed, totally believing dub, I used to lament the fact that the elders spent so little time keeping the congregation strong, and so much trying to keep it "clean" (Which, as we now know, it isn't anyway).