Syn,
Sorry to hear about Placebo.
If you tell him that you are an exjw, he might feel a need to shun you, even at work (if he is a happy jdub). It would cause discord in the office and he might self-destruct and lose his job. Of course that is not your responsibility, that is merely one of the dysfunctions of being jw. It is a tough call.
I liked Prisca's comments. They sound very reasonable to me. Not a spot I would want to find myself in.
Prisca: You and I are both Oct 17 birthdays! Yaaaay Libras! (sorry. . .off topic) <hangs head>
Valis: Cool new pic!
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