Okay, on the subject of sex...
The 'world' is not nearly as sexual as the JW mentality would tell you. To the contrary, JW beliefs on sex are just amplifications of how society feels about sex. Of course, we all know this already. Just sometimes we forget that the JW beliefs are not all that wacky.
So how does 'the world' feel about sex?
Here are some points that reveal a lot:
1) Nakedness is automatically equated with sex
2) Sex is considered selfish
3) Sex strictly within marriage is considered commitment
I think that these are 3 reasons to be vary wary of the traditional approach to sexuality. In reality, the traditional approach serves to enhance sexual desire, not stifle it. Here is the (undeclared) goal: reproduce as much as possible! That explains the commitment, eh? 'Keep at it until she's pregnant, boy!'
Thinking about it this way helps put things into perspective. So what is my view of sex? I am not having a terrific amount of sex with multiple partners (just one for now). But I'll tell you what I do not want.
I do not want to get shoved into a thoughtless marriage because I am curious about having sex with a female.
I do not want to be involved with a girl who has replaced most of her sexual desire with a desire for high social status.
I do not want to feel ashamed of my desires.