When life gets too hectic, or people get too close for comfort or want too much from me...when things weigh heavy on my mind and I need think to think for myself....when I need to take care of myself and shut the world out I can do that w/out a problem. Sometimes it means physically retreating to my house int he woods where NO one comes unannounced to visit. I can "drop of of society" for awhile and be a hermit. Detachment. There are times I like to just hide in the woodwork and let the world pass me by while I catch my breath.