Family Worship night is a boring, depressing, stifling, watchtarded indoctrination/brainwashing session. It never ends. Like all things WT, there is no end in sight. There is only the continuous "SOON" that strangles out all life.
Would you like to know how to escape the endless cycle of soul-damning boredom? Would you like to tell your family a "scriptural" reason for why you simply CANNOT participate, while at the same time, showing them your love? Of course you would! Well, O'L DD, is going to tell you what to do!
1) Look up and print any and all WT articles about people being DF'd for "apostasy". Especially those in the 80's where dubs were DF'd for saying there was no slave class. You can also use the "Walsh" trial, organ transplants, whatever. The point is to show that you CAN be DF'd for disagreeing with the GB/ORG.
2) Print out some articles that shows how JWs must rat on other dubs, or they share in the sin. Make sure the other party agrees that this is true.
3) Explain the new concept of "Brazen Conduct." Make sure that you say that an Elder told you this next part. Under "Brazen Conduct" in the Shepherd Book, it says that "apostasy" is a form of brazen conduct. What is "apostasy" exactly? Deliberately teaching anything that is contrary to the WTBTS's current understanding of the Bible, that's what...
So, simply tell your family that because you love them so much, you simply cannot study with them, but must "wait on Jehoober!" Why? Because according to the current understanding/official WTBTS policy in the Shepherd Book, you cannot teach them anything that disagrees with the Watchtower or Awake. If you do, then you are deliberately spreading a "false" teaching and your family are required to report it to the Elders lest they share in your "sin".
Even though you may be correct, ( give examples of how you have been right or make them up), you can be DF'd just like the Brothers who knew there was no slave class and that Jesus did not appoint ANYONE over his belongings.
Your conscience will force you to teach something contrary to current light, therefore your mate or family must report you, or be guilty by association. Since you cannot put them through the pain of possibly contributing to the break-up of your family, you simply cannot participate in Family Worship.
Your loved ones need plausible deniability. They must simply wait on you as you "wait on Jeehoober!" There is a "time to keep quiet" and this is it! You love them so much that you would rather be viewed as spiritually weak, than to cause them harm. Think of how badly they would feel someday, when they realized that they helped you be DF'd for no reason. They will be accountable for that, so you must save them from themselves!
BRILLIANT!!!!
DD