I don't think they let the child actually drink, they ordered 'virgin versions' of the adult drinks. But, when the waiter brang the real drink, everyone chuckled alot. And, when the waiter said, "Oh, I thought you were over 21", then everyone chuckled even more. And, the girl kept talking about how cool it was that someone brought her a real drink, thinks she's older, etc. You know how waiters work, all compliments and 'very good choice sir' type of brown-nosing.
Then adults did drive over 100 miles an hour through parts of South Florida back roads to get to the Keys, and they took the girl into Key West bars. Last year, the mom said that they didn't need to wear seatbelt because they were in an expensive car. (that's how stupid she is . . .so I reminded her of Lady Diana and that any object not strapped in in any car will go flying forward when it stops.)
Good point, the only fun the girl gets to have anymore is to "go out" with her mom and her friends.
Just sad. Yep, we are distancing ourselves.