The irony of it all. JW ask me to come by and visit him in a convalescent home.

by jam 12 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • jam
    jam

    WE were neighbors for 8-10 years. A little background, my

    neighbors (brother and sister) migrated from Holland to Canada

    and finally here in Calif. The first day I met Bill (not his name) he

    made it known he was a JW, so I never told him I was A JW, LOL.

    His sister I figured she was a JW also. They both were divorced.

    He no kids, she two daughters.

    Well as the years passed, he and I became good friends. He would

    look over the fence and see me working in the yard, bring over

    a few beers and we talk. He was in the concentration camps doing

    WW2, we talk about a lot of things and of course the end thing.LOL

    Four years ago he moved but his sister (Jan) stayed. We still stayed in

    contact, he only moved 10 min away.

    Jan his sister introduce me to the senior guitar class, but I still didn't

    know if she was a JW or raised as one...

    Well Bill became ill, heart problems. So his sister would ask me to

    go by and visit Bill.

    So I ask Bill, don't the people from your church come by to check on you,

    notice I said church,lol. He said he have not be active lately, about

    5 years, so the new ones don't know him. I believe he was A

    JW in name only, his father a well known Elder in Holland.

    Jan moved two months ago to go up north to live with her daughter,

    so that left Bill here all alone.

    She recently moved him to a convalescent home, it's just the two

    of them here in the USA.

    She called Saturday to give me the address of the C home. She mention

    the only visitors he receive are two JW sisters that drop off the mags

    once a week.

    So I told her, Jan I was once a JW. OH boy, we talked for two hours.LOL

    Her father, three brothers became a JW, she and her mom never became one.

    She hated the JW's, she said it destroyed their family.

    Well she want me to check on a nicer convalescent home for her brother, the

    one he is in I will see for myself this week.

    The irony a mental diseased, dreaded Apostate your only visitor. I will never tell

    him I was once a Elder.

  • 3rdgen
    3rdgen

    Jam, you are a class act.

  • millie210
    millie210

    Yes you are!

  • losingit
    losingit

    Cool!

  • jam
    jam

    They both are nice people..She (Jan) told me, when someone

    come back from the grave, we can then talk about paradise.

    Until then I will live my life. She metion 2000 a year of great

    expectation, did I miss something? She knew about all the fail

    dates. She said she wished she had known I was a exJW elder when

    we were neighbors.

  • MissFit
    MissFit

    JAM, They are so lucky to have you as a friend. Did you tell ever tell Bill that you are ex-Elder? He might be having doubts but feeling like it is just him being weak.

  • joe134cd
    joe134cd

    I suggest, considering the age of the man and the circumstances he's in. Just let him be. By going into all the crap of the JWs you would probably upset him and make his situation worse.

  • MissFit
    MissFit

    Bump, interesting experience. Eye opener for lurkers. Maybe they will be lucky enough to have an ex-JW or faded as a neighbor in their time of need.

    It seems inactive JWs are only worth contacting if you can count your time when you visit. Notice the only JW visits Bill gets is from JWs with magazines to drop off.

    They can count their time, placement and a RV. If they actually talk to him they might even count it as a bible study.

  • ruderedhead
    ruderedhead

    You're a good man, jam!

  • jam
    jam

    Missfit:No I never told him I was a ex-JW but I did tell him I have

    family members who are JW's. I didn't have the heart to tell him.

    He would talk about paradise and it gave him comfort and plus he

    is in his 80's. I remember what happen with my mom before she died.

    We (my brothers and sisters)alternated days to stay with my mom

    before she passed, so she could die in her home..

    My sister a JW a week or two before mom passed, she and her JW elder

    husband decided to tell her she had lived her life worshiping Satan. OK,

    mom 87 years old and a church going lady. It was actually my brother-in-law

    the idiot that took it on himself to tell her (mom). It upset my poor mom, she called

    my older brother and told him. My two older brothers told our ex-brother-law, never

    come to our mother house again, and he didn't...

    So I remember that's why I will never tell him.

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