For example, abusiveness in the relationship. Probably most of
us here were counsel by someone affiliated with some religion
organization, a minister..Most likely you were told, to pray on it..
But if the husband is beating the living day-light out of his wife,
well what's the point in praying. So in other words, God see you
with a black eye and the crap being beating out of you, so why should
I go to him..
What do you think a cerified marriage counsel will tell you, go to
the police, or smack him in the bed when he is sleep with a frying pan?
I have never been too a certified(non-religious) marriage
counsel. How many marriages may have been saved by following
their advice or ended sooner????