If you don't like being a Jehovah's Witness or going to the Kingdom Hall or the Society then leave.... It's as simple as that...
I left several years ago and have not been hounded, bothered or sought out by anyone. I still see them from time to time, and yes, they do pour out the love bomb when you run into them, but eh, you know what? I know them for who they really are. Most of them cannot help it, they do not know anything else, or are bound by guilt, fear and the "hope" of a new Earth.
Some choose to stay because they need the socialism, like the drama, or have a sense of power due to the position they hold.
Life is short, so enjoy it... You do not need religion to help you through it.
Peace and love baby..