Hi ILoveTTATT, I use the internet to locate Salsa and Bachata dance classes/events that are held in nightclubs/venues in S. CA. As you meet more dancers through meetup.com, you should be able to exchange information about where to dance and when. In Oxnard, CA they hold a Salsa Festival, which includes live bands and dancing, in July. PM me if you want to watch videos of dance instructors, who I like, dance Salsa and Bachata.
Enjoy your life!
By the way do your parents like to dance? Social dancing is a fun activity and can be a time consuming hobby.
Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,
Robert