I have to wholeheartedly condemn adopting a heavy handed dictatorial "head of the household" rule."
This isn't about adopting a heavy handed head of household rule. It's about using the JW's head of household use against them in reverse theocratic warfare. A man can't be having JW elders speaking alone with and texting his wife to pry personal information about the husband out of her. A man also can't be having JW elders with possible molestation of the daughter information finally bringing it to the attention of the girl's father in such a bizzare way.