What is the best way to make freinds while fading.
I have no friends outside jws. And if I tell a friendly jw how I feel, it would not be confidential.
I am thinking of joining a day time group, but what!
I live in a small town. In the past I have seen those who miss meetings/fs have outside friends and interests be seen as bad association, and eventually disfell. and over time move away. BUT those who are at every meeting/hours of fs etc, and have outside friends and interests, just get away with it, because basically of who they are, elders, elders wives, generations of family in so its all ok, not questioned.
Now its 2014 time for me to get a life I am all of a sudden nervous! Guess I know what to do in reality but its so scary for me. I want to be happy have some fun, but not worry about the harsh judgement. How do you cope? I know its very poor me poor me, but born in, and if it was not for the one family member I would just leave!