Hello and I'm sorry you are going this right now.
You asked if anyone else has been through something like this.....YES! we have...
My husband and I have been DF'd for four years for 'just disagreeing'. Very close family. Both sides of us were witnesses. My husband was in business with his dad and brother who decided they no longer wanted to work with him, so forced him to sell out his share of the business.
Well my husbands father was having a heart attack at work one day and walked himself into the hospital. They said he was lucky to be alive.
To make it short....His dad had to go in for immediate bypass open heart surgery.
My husband called the family and offered his services, to work, or help in ANY way.
They kindly told him they did not need him for anything and that his father told him NOT to come to the hospital to even see him as it would make too many people (witnesses) around him uncomfortable.
Yes that hurt immensely! We are now past that. It did take time and comfort from Jah. We are now faced with in the VERY near future (we heard through the grapevine) noone in the family has called us.....that his father has to go back in and have a pacemaker put in. His health is failing. Not a soul in the fam has called us other than a DF'd aunt who found out through a worldly aunt.
So, yes these are challenges we face as with ALL of you out there from time to time.
We will survive as we are blessed to have been freed fromt hat org and to understand the "real truth" our lord and savior. JOHN 14:6
Our thoughts and prayer are with you
Continue to let love conqueor despite how "they" conduct themselves.
JUST A MOM (Kim)