I read the "Ex-Witness singles" thread and it seems like a good idea. The thought has crossed my mind many times before since non-JW's often don't seem to care or understand. I would love being able to relate on something that has played such an important part of your lives (uh, understated - something your world is supposed to revolve around.) I still have yet to decide if that instant emotional bond is a good or bad thing though.
My last relationship with a non-JW was not perfect, but it was wonderful nonetheless. However, even though we had a solid emotional connection, I always felt a gap between us that never seemed to close. My biggest turn-off? I really wanted her to try and understand who I am and why, but she showed only marginal interest in discussing religion (she was highly intolerant toward religion in general) and had almost zero interest in things JW-related. She never once took the initiative to learn more about me there, even after blatant prodding attempts on my part. It made me often recall this high school teenager that had a crush on me and then discovered I was a JW. She impressed and flattered me immensely when I learned she was going to the library and looking up information on the Witnesses.
It should go without saying: At least try to take sincere interest in those things that are most important to your significant other!