spaz, very good to hear it turned out great :) i'm betting she will contact you more and more once she gets more and more comfortable talking with a da'd/df'd person.
love
harmony
I'M FREAKING OUT!
by SPAZnik 16 Replies latest jw experiences
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peaceloveharmony
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Billygoat
(((Spaz)))
I'm so glad it went well for you! I fantasize that someday I will be contacted by some of my old friends. Also my little brothers! I'm so happy for you!
So what now? Are you going to keep seeing her?
Andi
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SPAZnik
thx peaceloveharm & billy!
yep, we stay in touch now
via email
and i'm sure we will
keep meeting every now
and then to catch up.she's still 'in'
so i'm sure some days
will be easier than others
to meet with me.neither of us want to get her
into any kind of "trouble"...It's great to be back in touch
with her!Also great to have some kewl
cyber-people to share that
with! Thx all!Here's hoping you get a nice
surprise like that too someday
Andi! (yes i know, siblings are
the hardest to leave behind)SPAZ
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zanex
not to sound like a doomsayer but be careful..those still in the borg are still bound by its rules. If some random person shud happen to see the two of you together and then proceed to go straight to the local body of elders there cud be some difficulties that cud possibly come up. I miss the friends I had in the org and I would love to see them and hang out as old times but the fact remains that I am no longer part of that org. and while I am not bound by its rules I know my old, still jdub friends, are. A random surge of "spititual guilt" could send a dub on the fence straight to the body of elders...I been stabbed in the back by those wolf in sheeps clothing once and thats all it took. Anyway...if all is ok for you then by all means ENJOY yer friend for whatever it is worth...
-Z-
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plmkrzy
G O H A V E A D R I N K ! uh... another DRINK!
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SPAZnik
hey zanex -
thx for the advice, schweetie.
hey you, i wuz one, i know how it works!
i did consider those possibilities
before i went to see her in the first place.
(i'm a libra/scorpio -
the libra in me weighs things out from all sides first)
i was concerned...hence, the title "freaking out"...
there are some former "friends"
i could expect to be backstabbed by,
but this one is special and trustworthy.That said, i did tell her the evening we met that
"i understand that some days will be easier
or harder than others as far as our contact goes",
and i added "so if it's intermittent, i'll understand".
yep, she's worth the risk and we will be careful about being seen.
thanks for caring zanex! it's all good.SPAZ
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zanex
awww shucks....it wasnt nuthin...8) Just doin my own little part to help some on this board as some on this board have helped me A LOT. If yer readin this lisa u can stop smilin now. :) xjdubs of a feather fight to keep each other together...
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