Hello!
I also admire you confessing so your wife can have "scriptural freedom", if the W.T.S still enforces that. My father just kind of faded away. With no proof of adultry on his part, if my mother was to remarry, she would have been disfellowshipped.
She spent many years searching, hiring a private detective etc.
We found out that he had met another woman and they had a child together. He was with her the entire time.
I believe the W.T.S caused more misery to my mother by their bogus "scriptural freedom doctrine" than my father did by leaving her. Of course she will probably never see it that way.
I hope things go as smoothly as possible for you and your wife, whatever you decide. You seem to still care for her. Have you really talked with her about this? You never know, maybe she is having doubts of her own.
Your Bio. is excellent.
I wish more people would enter a biography. Its nice to learn a little about someone upfront.