Steve Hassan's BITE model mapped to WTS Part 1

by Julia Orwell 17 Replies latest jw friends

  • Julia Orwell
    Julia Orwell

    This is a project I've started to prove I'm not an apostate: mapping BITE to WTS. Part one is the first criteria of cult control, Behaviour Control. Feel free to add to these subheadings too, as many of you were in a lot longer than me and have been in bethel or been elders.

    Behavior Control

    1. Regulation of individual’s physical reality

    a. Where, how and with whom the member lives and associates with

    JWs are encouraged only associate with Witnesses and avoid others as much as possible; even in the congregation, associate with ‘good’ associations. Work functions, clubs and such are not considered appropriate association and are highly discouraged. Members are encouraged to keep association with non-JW family members low too.

    b. What clothes, colors, hairstyles the person wears

    There are guidelines of acceptable hairstyles, unspoken rules about women’s clothes, written and unwritten rules about what not to wear and certain privileges withheld because of facial hair etc. Men have to wear suits and ties to the meetings or they will be looked upon as spiritually weak and will not get any ‘priviledges’. In some countries the standard is more relaxed because of local custom for instance, men can wear sarongs to the meeting in the Torres Strait Islands.

    c. What food the person eats, drinks, adopts, and rejects

    Anything with blood in it for example, black pudding.

    d. How much sleep the person is able to have

    Not applicable to my knowledge

    e. Financial dependence

    Not applicable to my knowledge

    f. Little or no time spent on leisure, entertainment, vacations

    For JWs, the purpose of recreation, entertainment and holidays is to relax/refresh you for more witnessing. It is held to have no intrinsic value. Anything that doesn’t make for more witnessing is considered a waste of time.

    2. Major time commitment required for indoctrination sessions and
    group rituals –

    There are many commitments for the JW to keep: twice weekly meetings, ‘pre study for said meetings in a number of WT publications’, family worship whereby families are expected to work together on a Bible/WT project, 3x year assemblies, daily paragraph from WT in daily text.

    3. Need to ask permission for major decisions

    Not specifically, though many JWs will consult the elders on a particular course of action for advice.

    4. Need to report thoughts, feelings and activities to superiors

    JWs are expected to confess major sins to elders: fornication, over-drinking, viewing porn, etc.

    5. Rewards and punishments (behavior modification techniques- positive
    and negative).

    JW congregations use Withholding of brothers’ privileges, removing a brother’s privileges, and punishments like public reproving and disfellowshipping.

    6. Individualism discouraged; group think prevails

    “Independent thinking” vilified as a Satanic trait; JWs are told to obey and trust GB without questions, discouraged from making independent Bible study groups and can expect the elders to discipline them in some way if they talk to other JWs about private interpretation of the Bible. All individuals, regardless of skill, talent, shortcomings or preferences have to engage in the same activities and are expected to place them before their own likes such as arts, sports or hobbies.

    7. Rigid rules and regulations

    JWs have many rules that go beyond the Bible such as they must have chaperones when dating, there are strict protocols for meetings and assemblies, strict criteria for gaining certain titles, and quotas of hours in the door-to-door work associated with titles such as ‘pioneer’.,

    8. Need for obedience and dependency

    JWs are instilled with unquestioning obedience of FDS aka GB. To question the GB or WTS or say anything critical of the publications is considered disobedience.

    I will add the other criteria as I have them finished/are able to put up my one post per day.

  • Londo111
    Londo111

    Good job! Marked!

  • Sheep2slaughter
    Sheep2slaughter

    Nice. Marking for later. Thanks.

  • ABibleStudent
    ABibleStudent

    Hi Julia Orwell, Good start at describing how the WTBTS and elders try to control how JWs behave. I have never been a JW, so I'm very biased and believe that the WTBTS and elders try to control how JWs behave, think, and feel.

    It could be useful to corolate WTBTS propaganda to individual BITE control techniques to substantiate that the WTBTS does promote using BITE control on JWs, and describing what mind-stopping techniques or examples that JWs might use to dispute that the WTBTS promotes using BITE control techniques. I have heard first hand some platitudes for item 1a, stories of behavior that might contradict item 1f, and verification of item 3.

    I have heard a JW elder say that even though the WTBTS recommends that JWs do not associate with non-JWs he perfers associating with JWs instead of non-JWs because of their religious behavior and ethical character. Of course, that same elder seemed to be interested in learning about where to socialize and how to learn how to dance, but I thought that he might be just trying to form a common bond with me as part of recruiting me. The same elder also told me that JWs are not required to shun their JW family members and close JW friends who are DF'ed (is this an example of lying or Theocratic Warfare Strategy?).

    My former friend, who is a "Spiritually Strong" JW loved to go dancing and go on vacations or attend gatherings with her JW friends. Or, my former friend asked for advice from her "Spiritual Father", who is an elder, about associating with me . You can guess that I was not classified as one of Jehovah's sheep.

    Peace be with you and everyone, who you love,

    Robert

  • Pickler
    Pickler

    Good work Julia,

    on number 3: Need to ask permission for major decisions, I may be wrong about this, I'm not sure ...correct me if I am. But in other threads it has been discussed that when parents have uncovered child abuse, they have gone to the elders first, rather than to the police.

    Are they going to the elders to ask them if its OK to involve the police? Do the elders give permission or not? I don't know?

  • Julia Orwell
    Julia Orwell

    Ah yes I've heard about the child abuse thing where they go to the elders rather than the police. Perhaps this is an example.

    And Robert, that's a good idea of yours to back up my work with quotes. There are others here who are much better at finding quotes, so if they'd like to I'd be more than glad! I've heard so many quotes over the years they all become one huge ideology and it's hard for me to pin down just one.

    This is a part of a larger project I'm working on, so the more input the merrier.

  • Aussie Oz
    Aussie Oz

    not sure how working this out proves you are not an apostate though...

    I mean, to the WTBTS and JWs you are automatically an 'apostate' the moment you no longer believe the GB are gods channel.

    To the JWs, the BITE model simply is irrelivant because it does not match their own definition in the reasoning book. All other definitions have been customized by opposers to include them.

    good work though, and so important to do ones own projects...i did many in order to prove to myself that i was not being duped by ex Jw's.

    Oz

  • FingersCrossed
    FingersCrossed

    Awesome works Julia!! It will be great if there is any written evidence such as their own publications that shows they actually do all these...

  • Julia Orwell
    Julia Orwell

    It's to prove to myself really...and I should b able to get my husband to have a squizz at it it too. I tell him about how these things apply to the Mormons and scientologists and oops! I chuck in a wts example...I guess I'm really doing it to show him.

    I used to have Steve Hassan's first cult book and I gave it away! Argh, kicking myself!

  • Mickey mouse
    Mickey mouse

    Check out this thread.

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