I'm single. When I was in the faith, I was pretty much the one that stood out because I simply would not bow down to the brothers, who thought they were gods' gift to us sisters, because sisters out numbered the brothers 5 to 1 so they could have their pick. Sisters were so desperate for a brother to notice them....I could not be bothered.
I had fun, I did my own thing and I saw many of my girlfriends submit to the guys' decision. Their boyfriends would go so far as to tell them I was bad association. So much so that while chatting to my one friend on the phone the boyfriend grabs the phone and starts faking a fight and telling the g/f what I was supposedly saying (all lies). Desperate to hold onto a brother, she believed him, even when I confronted him in front of her, she chose him.
Ah god I'm so glad I'm out of that.