it makes me think that we're being held back by our simple refusal to be objective about our belief system.
It does hold us back SD. Human beings need to make decisions based on all the random elements in every single situation that comes along in life. Without rules given by someone else. Every human situation is different so how can someone esle decide for us, but that's what religions try and do. It is a funny feeling, I know. It made me feel almost dizzy at first. Like being on a tight-rope without a net. But you'll be fine. Life is so much easier when you can decide for yourself.