A similar situation that really gets my back up - families on benefits (that shouldn’t be)!
If you are in the US I guess you call it welfare. Look, I have nothing against individuals or families that try their best but still require assistance. But, when husband and wife both work part time (or just the husband works part time) and pioneer, knowing that benefits will fill the gap it’s just plain wrong. What makes it worse is when they comment – put down those that work hard so as to support themselves.