And the fact that you both don't have anyone close by can ONLY be one of 2 reasons. 1. You are good and the available local options just aren't that great. or 2. You have so many issues nobody local wants to be with you. - You seem a good person, he 'might' be a good person, but it could also be nobody wants to be with him after getting to know him. Unless you live in the woods and there are zero options, you are really better trying local. Or if he is serious, and you both would plan to be married within a year or 2, then he can move near you and you date in person.
Can a long distance relationship really work between jws?
by crazymeee 42 Replies latest social relationships
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crazymeee
we had a few discussions about a couple things but in the end he ends up apologizing for what he didnt do i do get that iv heard horrible stories about not seeing who the real person is inside and when the couples are married hes completly changed but that was when there all older.... can that happen in this case too? that were young we both never had a jw partner before
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lost1
If you are not jw and he is then run as fast as you can as EOM said! I had a long distant "relationship" ha ha ha and we are almost neighbours compared to your 2000 miles. We had only 200 miles between us. Will be amazing for a while then his guilt will set in. But whatever feels right for you. Best of luck.
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crazymeee
thats an option atleast knowing each other for awile and then talk about the seriousness of the relationship
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crazymeee
were both jw
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EndofMysteries
Another possibility, he might not be a jw, and or a 'worldy' one, and wanting to be your boyfriend via skype is to just use you on skype, aka free porn. So watch out for that too.
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EndofMysteries
Whatever you both wanna do is your choice, but I'm sure you don't want to be 'used'.
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crazymeee
i would never show any part of my body to anyone i dont even really like posting pics with friends in my bikini much less do that, no i checked he is one hes active and his sister is regular pioneer and everything i can tell he is a jw besides he hasnt so far asked me about that personal stuff
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EndofMysteries
Ofcoarse not, not yet bf and gf, if that is his goal and you agree to be bf/gf, then that will soon follow. "if" that is his goal.
and pioneer, MS, elder, none of that means anything, people can hide who they really are. Your level of comfort with one should be based on how they are as you get to know them, don't automatically trust just because of a title.
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EndofMysteries
Curious, why haven't you met any local anyway? Did he just pop up from online, or is are there ones near you? etc?