Why are you angry about his turn down? It was honest and legitimate - something that should be appreciated.
You should try being me! Women make up all kinds of BS excuses and lies to not go out with me. Hell, they are even so cold as to burst out laughing at me when I ask them out. You should try walking down the hall giving people a polite smile, only to be met with silence and averted eyes. Now that’s cruelty.
"As every one knows, there are mistakes in the Bible" - The Watchtower, April 15, 1928, p. 126
Believe in yourself, not mythology.