I had an Italian elder friend that regularly drank his wine (daily) and it was obvious that on some Thursday or Tuesday evenings, he was clearly under the influence of alcohol. Quite often, we would have a 3:00 Sunday afternoon elder's meeting and once again, I could tell he had been drinking.
Nobody ever brought it up but I knew him well and he loved his vino and martinis!
We had a number of people on meds that would either act like zombies at the meetings or cry or get aggressive.
Were you ever under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol while at the meetings or did you know of some that were???